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Welcome to The Savage Gentleman

Helping men Do The F'ing Work to become the man they want to be!

WDYWFY? What Do You Want For Yourself? WDYD? What Do You Deserve?

Now here are two tougher questions:
What is a real man?
Are you a real man?

What is a real man? Most of us men feel lost and torn between how we think we are “supposed to be” as a man – and how we really want to be. Our spouses or partners, our families, our friends and society all want to tell us how a man should be. I say F that! How do you want to define it, and within that define yourself?
If you are like most men, you may have struggled to come up with answers to those simple questions – or maybe felt an internal conflict around these questions. Welcome to the club! That’s not meant to trivialize those feelings – it’s meant to welcome you to being a man, especially these days. And maybe welcome you to the tribe of The Savage Gentlemen…

Invest in Yourself:
Coaching That Pays Off

Interested in taking the first step towards personal growth and evolution? Contact us to set up a consultation and start your journey towards becoming the best version of yourself. Don’t wait any longer to begin your transformation – contact us today!

Man to Man Coaching

At Savage Gentleman, we believe that real growth requires courage and a willingness to challenge your own beliefs. It’s about owning your shit, being accountable, and being open to new perspectives. This may mean having difficult conversations that push you out of your comfort zone, but it’s through discomfort that real transformation occurs. 

As Thomas Leonard famously said, “when you evolve, you fundamentally and permanently change part of who you are.”

Open Mat

This approach is all about one to one work. We meet on a frequent basis, once per week is recommended, for a preplanned number of meetings. "Open Mat" means we will work on what you need to and let the sessions carve a natural course. We can do a single session but if a quick fix worked you probably wouldn't still be reading this! So let's roll up our sleeves and DTFW and make some real changes. Let's work on helping you evolve. Thomas Leonard said "when you evolve you fundamentally and permanently change part of who you are"! I recommend that you commit to a series of 6 sessions as a package. We can hit things hard and fast and then adjust from there. If there is more work to do, we can schedule more sessions.

Current pricing is $1,000 for 6 sessions. Sessions are scheduled for 60 minutes but I will have buffer space for up to 90 in case it's needed. That way if we get the work done, we can close the session, but if we are still hammering out issues we have space to do that.

Structured Sessions

This approach provides more of a structure and works through a series of lessons and exercises to prompt your growth and evolution. We use various tools, some that are mine and some from other sources, that help us identify the core areas to work on. There will be homework in preparation for these sessions and follow up exercises for many of them. Keep in mind that this method does not allow as much room for getting off course, but we can always add additional/separate sessions if needed at an additional cost.

If this style appeals to you, ask about the courses we are currently offering.

Current pricing is $1,600 for 6 sessions. Sessions are scheduled for 60 minutes and we will work to stay on task to move through the work before us.

Experiential Coaching

This type of Coaching can be an easier introduction to Coaching and Men's Work. And a hell'uv a lotta fun! It uses group activities, camaraderie, fellowship and even sweat to help drive conversations and growth. We schedule a group "field trip" of sorts and blend in fun, challenges and coaching. Hiking, kayaking, fly fishing and shooting are examples of possible activities. We are constantly looking for new ideas so if you have one let's talk about it!

Price is TBD with consideration for the trip expenses and some compensation for the Coaching!

Men's Book Discussions

This is a group meeting. There are a lot of great books to pick from! No More Mr Nice Guy, The Way of the Superior Man, How A Man Thinketh and The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck are a few. Most any book can work but these discussions are driven by some hard hitting questions designed to get you out of your head and into your heart, and your balls! When I say that last part it speaks to helping you find strong and authentic expression of your manhood with your perspectives. This is not about being cocky or arrogant - it's about owning your views, your shit and keeping an open mind to 1) that your views may not be what you truly believe and 2) that it's OK that others may view things differently and 3) that having real conversations can help everyone grow and evolve.

Usually done in 4 week blocks. Discussions are 90 minutes. Pricing is $50 per book with 50% donated to charity. Additional costs could be food or drinks depending on location.

Men's Group Meetings

"Iron Sharpens Iron"! Group meetings are every other week for 2 hours. There is a brief check in for each member followed by the group helping any member who needs support with an issue or area of life. When a guy needs something, it is their work to do and our job to hold them accountable to doing it - NOT DOING IT FOR THEM! We challenge them to find perspective, solutions and action steps to move through the issue. And where appropriate accountability and support. These groups also provide fellowshipand an opportunity to build friendships outside the meetings.

Meetings are 2 hours long and scheduled every other week. Pricing is $20 per session with 50% donated to charity.

identify, define and refine

Who is the man behind Savage Gentleman Coaching?

The hardest thing I ever had to go through was a really bad divorce and the splintering of a family. It ripped me to the core. I was angry and hurt and lost and even scared at times. I had to rebuild and really build my life for the first time. “Nobody’s fault but mine” – as it usually is, but that ain’t easy to own. The developing concepts that would later take form in The Savage Gentleman Coaching were being tested daily and forged in the crucible of a shattering life. Churchill said, “ If you’re going through Hell, keep going”, and I did. And I studied and I learned. I cried and yes, totally lost my shit at least a few times. And through it, I started to learn what WAS my fault, what WASN’T my fault, and what was just shit we all go through in life. By learning to “own my shit” and work on the things I decided were important to me I was able to survive that period (not without scars and casualties) and now learn to find thrive and flow, and often peace in my life. The Savage Gentleman Approach has been formed from the best advice of some of the most impactful people throughout history and our current times. And one of the best things I learned along the way is the importance of a good toolbox. Because what works for me, may work differently for you. Or maybe a different tool is better for you. Like a seasoned tradesman, I will help you learn the “tricks of the trade” or “hacks” of growing as a man. And welcome you to challenge me to do the same – every day!

Savage Gentlemen in Action

Our tribe is more than just a group of men getting together, it’s about creating lasting relationships and fostering growth through shared experiences. Browse through our photo gallery to see snapshots of our past events, trips, and gatherings. You’ll see images of our members in action, as they push their limits and connect with like-minded individuals. These photos capture the essence of what it means to be a Savage Gentleman, and we can’t wait for you to join us in creating your own memorable moments.

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